Nanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes… …
“I don’t wish to be hurt again, but I really want to find my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can wait until you’ve had enough time in between the hurt in your previous relationship or 2) begin moving on and releasing the past. Considering you desire to reach your soul mate, then I’d do the work in letting go. It is faster and easier than you imagine. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from your previous relationship. Think of releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You’re creating new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.
I realize some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be forgiven for his behavior. He wronged me and that is just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow trickle in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Furthermore, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment, do you think you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, clutter up your energy field and block you from going forward to having the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of the process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I find that the idea of forgiving can be a convoluted one. Firstly, I’m not talking of the type of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It is essential to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you desire to spend your time and with whom. It’s essential to realize what works for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you’ll either attract more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
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